The first steps- Ask:
What do you want?
Why do you want that ? What will your life look like when you get what you want? What will it feel like?
Write it down.
If you really want something, it is very important to know your true reasons for wanting it. If you know the why, you will be more likely to move on to the how. When you understand the how you can take the steps to achieve it. However, if you don’t know the why, maybe it isn’t the thing you should be pursuing in the first place. Or maybe when you ask yourself the why you can’t come up with reasons that really resonate with you. However, if every why makes you feel joy, happiness and hope, then believe in yourself, believe you are going to get it, take the steps, and it is yours.